Listen To What People Don't Say

I was talking to ching last night and we were slightly talking about signs… and something popped out of my head... “Instead of wasting time searching and waiting for words...why not take a look at the signs? They might have been more true and honest” . These words are mere reflections of everyday life, what has happened to me and to the people around me. Sometimes we want others to say things right in front of us. Sometimes we want them to plunk out melodies of words that are good to hear but sometimes we end up listening to a holler of thunder that painfully strikes right in the center of our hearts. Sometimes we end up hurt and sometimes we end up in high spirits. Sometimes we overlook and assume things so that we would at least feel that everything is on our side. We defend ourselves denying about facts of life so that we would feel a little light. But behind all these hiding and encroaching what others might say or what we want others to say… why not take a look at the signs? They are not just the God given signs, others may say it blunt but some may show it in a non-verbal way. Some may act it as if it’s their only way but others want people to be sensitive enough to know what they really mean. Here I go again… talking about sensitivity stuffs and the like. I’m not gonna reiterate things about sensitivity. Guys, it’s just a matter of being keen to what people are saying and what they are not saying to us.